Accountability

2022.01.18 22:06 westofapathy Accountability

Does your pwBPD struggle with accountability?
My (30F) pwBPD (31F) has been having frequent episodes over the past few months, almost weekly. The cycle is generally the same, if she’s upset I can be patient and soothe the feelings of abandonment or pain that are arising. But if I try to express my feelings or pain ever, she immediately sees it as rejection or abandonment and splits. We have time apart and when we reconcile she recognises what has happened.
My main concerns are that I am never able to express myself without her finding something to be annoyed at me for to deflect the perceived feeling of rejection. When I do express myself, my feelings are trivialised. The gaslighting, she won’t remember things she has said and when I show her proof (screenshots) it’s dismissed. I am also struggling with the fact that I am not allowed to refer to it as abuse. It’s as if she sees her bpd episodes as seperate from her, and while I understand how difficult it is, it’s hard to feel like she is not taking accountability for the pain she’s causing me.
I thought I’d put the question out there to hopefully get some clarity. Does your pwBPD struggle with accountability? How did you work through this? Thanks!
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